| HI, I am seeking advice and some kind words about what I have been dealing with. In short for this thread, the red flags of infidelity have been flying at full mast now for a while, and in the middle of it all, after seeing a text from my wife to "a real close guy friend" ("I love you so much baby"), she is of course in denial of any wrong doing...that is just the way she talks to her friends (not me by the way). I decided to start tracking her phone records, which is all that I have, but they do speak volumes to me once I started logging events and her texts, calls, and apparent messenger (data) usage. I have tried to reason with her without telling her that I know all of this, but of course she denies any wrong doing. She started working as a bar tender (she is age 50) this spring after being unsatisfied with her job. We used to go up there as a couple, but the bar drama just wore too much on me. I am full time school and full time work, so I am very limited in my available time. Her friends I could live with or without, and I am not very personable as it is. Over the past 5 months she has been hanging out every day after work for about 2-6 hours. Of course she says that I am busy and she doesn't want to be home bored. I feel like I have been replaced first by her friends, and now by her friend in need. Who she "doesn't speak to"...but I have the records to prove otherwise. I am just tired of her not being close to me. This story goes back YEARS (27 years marriage). I just need some understanding and guidance, I have turned to my boss and a few others, but really, I need more outlets to help guide my actions. This is eating me up inside. | |||
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