I was married once before. Only made it 18 months. I got a call from her father one day saying "Barbara does not want to be married to you anymore." I was completely floored and did not see it coming.
Six years later I got married a second time and am still with the same person 23 years later.
The weird part is that in my first marriage I was LD and she was HD. In my current marriage I am HD and she is LD.
Why the difference?
I got married the first time young, at 23. We did not have sex before marriage, but she gave me a BJ almost daily. It then started on our honeymoon. I simply was not in to her. I cannot tell you why, it just did not click. I wanted to have sex, but not with her. She was constantly after me, but I would always reject her. I did not know why. She begged me to go down on her and I could only do it once in 18 months. I have not seen her since the day she left (believe it or not) and I now completely understand why she left. In fact, I am so thankful she did leave because I was going to stay no matter what. That would have been hell for both of us.
My second marriage is completely different. I dig my wife. She at first could take it or leave it (sex). I go down on her like I'm eating a kobe steak for the first time. I love it. I want sex more than she does, but things are getting better, which is great. We are mostly lined up at the moment.
Maybe it all boils down to chemistry. The more I had sex with my first wife, the more I disliked having sex with her. The more I have sex with my current wife, the more I want to have sex with her.
Perhaps this is all a crap shoot and you get what you roll.
Just thought I should share my past a bit.
If you have any questions, ask away.
BTW: We averaged sex about once a week.
No children with wife #1.
Six years later I got married a second time and am still with the same person 23 years later.
The weird part is that in my first marriage I was LD and she was HD. In my current marriage I am HD and she is LD.
Why the difference?
I got married the first time young, at 23. We did not have sex before marriage, but she gave me a BJ almost daily. It then started on our honeymoon. I simply was not in to her. I cannot tell you why, it just did not click. I wanted to have sex, but not with her. She was constantly after me, but I would always reject her. I did not know why. She begged me to go down on her and I could only do it once in 18 months. I have not seen her since the day she left (believe it or not) and I now completely understand why she left. In fact, I am so thankful she did leave because I was going to stay no matter what. That would have been hell for both of us.
My second marriage is completely different. I dig my wife. She at first could take it or leave it (sex). I go down on her like I'm eating a kobe steak for the first time. I love it. I want sex more than she does, but things are getting better, which is great. We are mostly lined up at the moment.
Maybe it all boils down to chemistry. The more I had sex with my first wife, the more I disliked having sex with her. The more I have sex with my current wife, the more I want to have sex with her.
Perhaps this is all a crap shoot and you get what you roll.
Just thought I should share my past a bit.
If you have any questions, ask away.
BTW: We averaged sex about once a week.
No children with wife #1.
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