I discovered my Husband had EA and PA for 6 mths with a co-worker in 2013. We recommited to our marriage, attending coynseling and are working on things. While I can forgive him for the affair I am having a hard time forgiving him for a wedding we never had. We eloped 15 yrs ago this September with him promising that we will have a vow renewal on our 10 yr Anniversary (2010) due to finances. he completely flaked during our 10 yr. (signs of things to come) and we were financially sound at the time. I am so resentful and don't know why. It has become a road block in our recovery efforts. Realistically I know we are not in the "best" place to "celebrate" our union so why do I feel like with out it we will never move forward. 2 yrs later and my mind still feels crazy and scattered. Has anyone experience anything similar and how do you get over this hump?
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