To clarify the title, I sitting across the table from a early 30 something women at a dance event. she was telling her friend that she danced with some guy (everyone dances with others, not unusual at these events), but she proceeded to describe the flutters she was having dancing with this particular person and how after she tracked him down on Facebook and was heartbroken because he did not respond. (she is married)
I am still licking my wounds and have not dated yet but it got me think, do all women have such a carefree attitude to commitment. Do I have to be more superficial in a relationship. When I am in relationships I might look at other women but in my head I am thinking, wow she is an attractive gal, that's it. I am a guy, I like looking at pretty women as much as anyone else but would never think of even flirting. It would make me uncomfortable. I would be thinking I am doing something wrong.
When I find the person "I think" will be good for me and me for her do I always have to be wondering, gee I wonder if she is thinking of somebody else.:scratchhead:
I am still licking my wounds and have not dated yet but it got me think, do all women have such a carefree attitude to commitment. Do I have to be more superficial in a relationship. When I am in relationships I might look at other women but in my head I am thinking, wow she is an attractive gal, that's it. I am a guy, I like looking at pretty women as much as anyone else but would never think of even flirting. It would make me uncomfortable. I would be thinking I am doing something wrong.
When I find the person "I think" will be good for me and me for her do I always have to be wondering, gee I wonder if she is thinking of somebody else.:scratchhead:
Put the internet to work for you.
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