I have lived with Dan for 5 years…..we are both seniors….but very active and youthful. We have many things in common…..we dance…….we love music……we both have an interest in history and current events…….we like to party……we love football…..etc. Our relationship is not perfect by any means……..we argue but always stay together. I do have a trust issue as I have been cheated on before in previous relationships. So has Dan. We both know how it feels to be cheated on.
Last spring I sensed "something was going on"…..call it woman's intuition. Long story short…..Dan was communicating via text and e-mail to an old girlfriend. He said he had to see her again. So…..he flew to Florida and spent 5 days with her. It was the worst 5 days of my life….I was lost. I considered moving out……but I just couldn't make myself do it.
We ended up staying together…..but I never heard from him what I wanted to hear……….basically he told me it didn't work out with her.
She was younger than me by about 10years…..beautiful…..more "open" than me……….Dan referred to her as a "hot chick"…….
I'm no slouch…….I workout 6 days a week…….double workouts on occasion……and take very good care of myself…….but I'm 65. Dan says I look "fine" for my age. (That is a far cry from a "hot chick.")
It has been 7 months……since this affair…….….she is always looming over me in my mind. I beat myself up worrying about her coming back into the picture. Dan …is by nature….not an affectionate man….with me anyway……
I encourage any feed back……….please keep in mind that my heart is in this relationship. I love him….I want to save our relationship.
Last spring I sensed "something was going on"…..call it woman's intuition. Long story short…..Dan was communicating via text and e-mail to an old girlfriend. He said he had to see her again. So…..he flew to Florida and spent 5 days with her. It was the worst 5 days of my life….I was lost. I considered moving out……but I just couldn't make myself do it.
We ended up staying together…..but I never heard from him what I wanted to hear……….basically he told me it didn't work out with her.
She was younger than me by about 10years…..beautiful…..more "open" than me……….Dan referred to her as a "hot chick"…….
I'm no slouch…….I workout 6 days a week…….double workouts on occasion……and take very good care of myself…….but I'm 65. Dan says I look "fine" for my age. (That is a far cry from a "hot chick.")
It has been 7 months……since this affair…….….she is always looming over me in my mind. I beat myself up worrying about her coming back into the picture. Dan …is by nature….not an affectionate man….with me anyway……
I encourage any feed back……….please keep in mind that my heart is in this relationship. I love him….I want to save our relationship.
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