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Is it ok to hide secrets about your past from your fiancé?

My fiance and I have been together a little over a year & recently engaged. I believed he had the perfect relationship, He is so attractive, Treats me great but at the same time he can be grumpy somestimes and i've seen him get short fused with friends, I tought our communication lines were on point, Our relationship is very intense, last night I realised that image of mine was too good to be true. At a friends b'day party last night a friend of his slipped up while he was talking to me and he asked am I ever afraid of my fiancé getting locked up again, This threw me completely off, Long story short, It turns out my fiancé was in prison for armed robbery and got out a few days before I met him. I confronted him about this last night which was a mistake because we were drinking but he was shocked I knew about it and was demanding to know who told me about it. What's worse is he told me that he is still in contact with all those people and lifestyle but never wanted me to know because "he didn't want to risk losing me, because he loves me so much & without me his life would be meaningless". Im back home now and although he keeps trying to talk to me I cant talk to him, I keep walking away. I feel betrayed and like an idiot for thinking our relationship was 'perfect'. Is there a way past this or are we done, Please help me?

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