I have been married for four years now .Have 2 beautiful kids with my wife.I got a 9-5 job recently and it has helped a lot at home .I'm the sole bread winner.For some reason,My wife doesn't seem to understand it.She wants me to take afternoons off ,while she goes and handles other biz that doesn't translate into anything developmental for the relationship ,kids or the home.When I tell her that I have to go back to work ,she sulks at it (if i can't meet her request) She loves good things (we all do) But right now I have a heavy baggage of taking care of home and her..I paid her tuition through University and now I pray she passes so that She can get something to do ..I have a side business that i Do as well to supplement weekend supplies.
I meet my clients Friday evenings.She doesn't like it either ,yet I can't go back empty handed.She goes on to tell her Mum about it ..how i come back late and the like...im home on time everyday of the week .I never get a 'welcome back' how was your day'..I instead initiate it..She can go on like how i have never done anything for her ,how I have another woman ,even told a friend of mine I had a child elsewhere yet none of the mentioned is true..I try talking to her,re assuring her.. (im really a calm guy) but she talks back ,has hit me twice..but i'm still hanging on ...recently I took our son to hospital and she kept requesting for us to get back so that she could go to dance school ...she fell sick afterwards and a Bacterial infection was found ,she went on to lie to me that she had malaria as well,yet i knew she had the former..it really hurt me that she had stooped that low,went on to call the mother crying how she was throwing up and had diarrhea while i was meeting m y clients, getting paid and heading home afterwards.her younger sister was home and told me in confidence all that was a hoax ....
I really don't know what to do ..i suggested counseling ,she just told me that couldn't work .she doesn't want me to have friends and a social life ...
I need advice ...coz im not giving up!
I meet my clients Friday evenings.She doesn't like it either ,yet I can't go back empty handed.She goes on to tell her Mum about it ..how i come back late and the like...im home on time everyday of the week .I never get a 'welcome back' how was your day'..I instead initiate it..She can go on like how i have never done anything for her ,how I have another woman ,even told a friend of mine I had a child elsewhere yet none of the mentioned is true..I try talking to her,re assuring her.. (im really a calm guy) but she talks back ,has hit me twice..but i'm still hanging on ...recently I took our son to hospital and she kept requesting for us to get back so that she could go to dance school ...she fell sick afterwards and a Bacterial infection was found ,she went on to lie to me that she had malaria as well,yet i knew she had the former..it really hurt me that she had stooped that low,went on to call the mother crying how she was throwing up and had diarrhea while i was meeting m y clients, getting paid and heading home afterwards.her younger sister was home and told me in confidence all that was a hoax ....
I really don't know what to do ..i suggested counseling ,she just told me that couldn't work .she doesn't want me to have friends and a social life ...
I need advice ...coz im not giving up!
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