Reading some threads on this board I cannot stop wondering why some people are still with their spouses.
The spouse acts in a way the OP find unacceptable... total lack of affection, drunkenness, anger issues and so on.
The OP is told that he or she must tell the spouse to stop this behaviour, OP does not do it, is back here a month later, talking about how the spouse did the same thing again.
Why do some people always hope that their will change through a miracle. The truth is: most likely he or she won't.
You must see if you can learn to live with his or her behaviour. Yes, good for you. No, time to move on (unless of course there are reasons why you cannot divorce, like culture, kids involved or things like this).
Don't want to be offensive but that is my opinion.
The spouse acts in a way the OP find unacceptable... total lack of affection, drunkenness, anger issues and so on.
The OP is told that he or she must tell the spouse to stop this behaviour, OP does not do it, is back here a month later, talking about how the spouse did the same thing again.
Why do some people always hope that their will change through a miracle. The truth is: most likely he or she won't.
You must see if you can learn to live with his or her behaviour. Yes, good for you. No, time to move on (unless of course there are reasons why you cannot divorce, like culture, kids involved or things like this).
Don't want to be offensive but that is my opinion.
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