Sometimes when I interact with these guys I feel like I'm emasculating them for some reason. I'm guessing it's to do with the fact that they aren't particularly aggressive/assertive like some other guys, or at least not evidently so, and so it's almost as if I'm overwhelming them, especially when drinking, I tend to become a tad louder and more 'energetic'. Also I find that I throw my arms around peoples or guys' shoulders and I feel like I'm emasculating them or acting manly if I initiate any physical contact. :S I'm a decent looking gal and would describe myself as quite feminine generally if that makes a difference.
Main reason I'm asking this question is because there's this guy I kinda like but I feel like I've put him off with my behaviour. I mean he seems friendly enough when I talk to him (I always have to initiate the convo) but apart from that I kinda feel as if he doesn't really notice me :/ hmm maybe he just doesn't like me in that way, I dunno...
Guys who are on the quieter/more introverted side, do you sometimes feel emasculated with these sorts of behaviours from a girl? Would it put you off her?
Main reason I'm asking this question is because there's this guy I kinda like but I feel like I've put him off with my behaviour. I mean he seems friendly enough when I talk to him (I always have to initiate the convo) but apart from that I kinda feel as if he doesn't really notice me :/ hmm maybe he just doesn't like me in that way, I dunno...
Guys who are on the quieter/more introverted side, do you sometimes feel emasculated with these sorts of behaviours from a girl? Would it put you off her?
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