hi,
i have been married for 6 years, my husband just moved out 4 days ago, we had a disagreement, have had a few. but more good times than bad times. so yesterday i went to counseling, he showed up, and i dont know where he is staying, but i called him. and he met me out in a parking lot because i asked for a hug from him. and he agreed, we talked for about 30 minutes, he was mostly, no eye contact , but a lil responsive. he said he will come back home next week if he sees a change in me. i was having trust issues with him, so i was checking his phone, etc. but because he has cheated before. so now, i have agreed those things will end if he comes home, and i will be in counseling which i have started and will back today. when i see him, he still drives around with his truck full of his clothes, and hes in a hotel, but i dont know where... he showers, but puts on the same clothes hes had on for 4 days.. he is a very clean person, no hes not on drugs , or anything like that, when i see him, he always looks tired, he doesnt glow anymore... i asked him to come to the house last night if we wanted that teh kids miss him, and i was coking his favorite food, he aid maybe, but never showed up, or didnt call to cancel.thats when i called him for a hug, and he said ok. please help, any advice is helpful.
about me.. ive been upset crying on and off for 4 days that hes been gone. i try to grip myself ,but cry 30 minutes later. i do want him back, and feel i have lost apart of myself.
i have been married for 6 years, my husband just moved out 4 days ago, we had a disagreement, have had a few. but more good times than bad times. so yesterday i went to counseling, he showed up, and i dont know where he is staying, but i called him. and he met me out in a parking lot because i asked for a hug from him. and he agreed, we talked for about 30 minutes, he was mostly, no eye contact , but a lil responsive. he said he will come back home next week if he sees a change in me. i was having trust issues with him, so i was checking his phone, etc. but because he has cheated before. so now, i have agreed those things will end if he comes home, and i will be in counseling which i have started and will back today. when i see him, he still drives around with his truck full of his clothes, and hes in a hotel, but i dont know where... he showers, but puts on the same clothes hes had on for 4 days.. he is a very clean person, no hes not on drugs , or anything like that, when i see him, he always looks tired, he doesnt glow anymore... i asked him to come to the house last night if we wanted that teh kids miss him, and i was coking his favorite food, he aid maybe, but never showed up, or didnt call to cancel.thats when i called him for a hug, and he said ok. please help, any advice is helpful.
about me.. ive been upset crying on and off for 4 days that hes been gone. i try to grip myself ,but cry 30 minutes later. i do want him back, and feel i have lost apart of myself.
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