This is something specific to me and probably many other betrayed spouses: how, if at all did your husband / wife 'change' when they were in the midst of their affair with their OM/OW?
Did the OM/OW make any suggestions or coerce them into making changes for them?
In my own marriage my wife suddenly got into things she'd never been into before such as sports like MotoGP and UFC/MMA
(OM was into both and owned a fast-bike)
Looks-wise, she dyed her hair bleach-blonde, started running/cycling a lot, wearing far more revealing clothes and most extreme of all, had a nipple pierced - she already had a tattoo from when we first met and was going to get another but didn't...
Disclaimer: most of this was all following on from when she wanted a separation so she could start 'seeing' the OM as 'boyfriend & girlfriend'...if she was having a secret affair, obviously it would have been 'red-flagged'....but you get the general idea of this thread.
Did the OM/OW make any suggestions or coerce them into making changes for them?
In my own marriage my wife suddenly got into things she'd never been into before such as sports like MotoGP and UFC/MMA
(OM was into both and owned a fast-bike)
Looks-wise, she dyed her hair bleach-blonde, started running/cycling a lot, wearing far more revealing clothes and most extreme of all, had a nipple pierced - she already had a tattoo from when we first met and was going to get another but didn't...
Disclaimer: most of this was all following on from when she wanted a separation so she could start 'seeing' the OM as 'boyfriend & girlfriend'...if she was having a secret affair, obviously it would have been 'red-flagged'....but you get the general idea of this thread.
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