He isn't interested is he?

I met this guy online, we texted consistently early hours of the morning, then spoke for almost 4 hours in which he asked me out on a date. During our conversation, he told me about his dreams and how at ease he felt talking to me. He said he didn't want to get off the phone. Anyway, he took awhile to confirm times - I mean the whole entire day ignoring two messages I sent him. Anyway, he apologised and we went on the date. He paid for the tickets and I felt a little awkward so fought to pay for the food.(I know I am an idiot.) We kissed and I invited him back to mine. That night we almost had unprotected sex.(I recently went on this self-empowerment journey to flee from society and religious norms - he ended up breaking my hymen.)

Anyway, he stayed until early hours of the morning where he fell asleep in my arms. It was nice. He texted me straight away and again in the evening. Then the next day, again in the evening. But his response rate is so rubbish. So today I asked him out for coffee around mine. He said he would try, his work is in another city. He hasn't even texted to let me know he won't be coming. I just think its rude. I don't get him.

So things you must know: He is 11 years older than I am, he met and did all of the above on the same day (so talking online to him over at mine - one day). Before you all grill me about this self-respect bs. Just don't, please?

Anyway - insight please?

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