I'm of average length and probably a bit below average girth. We try lube but it doesn't help and she doesn't like it. She shuts down if I try to use force on her, so i take it slow.
Every time my wife and I decide to have sex, even if she is in the mood, I have to fight with her to open up. She starts by locking her thighs together. This forces me every time into the missionary position. I can spend 10 - 15 minutes trying to warm her up by kissing her, rubbing her body, massaging her breasts. With her legs together, I eventually try to move one of her thighs to the side with my hand. but she resists. I usually put a knee between both thighs and slowly separate them.
Considering I put this much effort into just getting her to open up her legs, she won't allow me to use any of my digits to penetrate her either. She doesn't mind me stimulating her clitoris though. rarely will she allow me to please her orally.
Once I can find position, if I try to penetrate, she locks her legs again on me, or she will push me back with her hands. She usually takes control by this time and guides me in with one hand while pushing me back with the other.
Trust me when I say that I go slow, sometimes she tells me I was going too slow. Once I am in, I can feel her muscles tightly trying to push me out. As time goes on, she gets into it, and the muscles usually give in and she becomes fully dilated.
The last time we had sex, I came. I laid on top of her and she forcefully started grasping my back, going down to my hips. I am ticklish at the waste side, so I would try to grab her hands and bring them back up, but she was fighting me. Telling me not to pull my penis out of her. Seeing that I was ticklish she continued to try to grab me, I kept trying to stop her, at one point I grabbed her hands, and she forcefully released herself and went back to making me squirm. I couldn't take it anymore and jumped off her and then she slapped me. She apologized, it didn't hurt physically, but more emotionally.
The slap really bothered me. I really don't know how to take all of this.
Any suggestions?
Every time my wife and I decide to have sex, even if she is in the mood, I have to fight with her to open up. She starts by locking her thighs together. This forces me every time into the missionary position. I can spend 10 - 15 minutes trying to warm her up by kissing her, rubbing her body, massaging her breasts. With her legs together, I eventually try to move one of her thighs to the side with my hand. but she resists. I usually put a knee between both thighs and slowly separate them.
Considering I put this much effort into just getting her to open up her legs, she won't allow me to use any of my digits to penetrate her either. She doesn't mind me stimulating her clitoris though. rarely will she allow me to please her orally.
Once I can find position, if I try to penetrate, she locks her legs again on me, or she will push me back with her hands. She usually takes control by this time and guides me in with one hand while pushing me back with the other.
Trust me when I say that I go slow, sometimes she tells me I was going too slow. Once I am in, I can feel her muscles tightly trying to push me out. As time goes on, she gets into it, and the muscles usually give in and she becomes fully dilated.
The last time we had sex, I came. I laid on top of her and she forcefully started grasping my back, going down to my hips. I am ticklish at the waste side, so I would try to grab her hands and bring them back up, but she was fighting me. Telling me not to pull my penis out of her. Seeing that I was ticklish she continued to try to grab me, I kept trying to stop her, at one point I grabbed her hands, and she forcefully released herself and went back to making me squirm. I couldn't take it anymore and jumped off her and then she slapped me. She apologized, it didn't hurt physically, but more emotionally.
The slap really bothered me. I really don't know how to take all of this.
Any suggestions?
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