so my husband and i have been married for one year. we met in the navy almost three years ago. i just ended my service with the navy two months ago in order to be with him and have a family. we have been arguing a lot lately. i blame a lot of it on myself. mostly because i would nag him and not ask for his help with silly things like he dishes or the laundry. i would just wait till i got mad and argue about it. i believe i made him feel bad a lot and i feel horrible about it. now yes, he has done his share of the arguing but i have to live with the way that i act. well two weeks ago he said he wanted a divorce so i went to stay with my parents six hours away thinking that we could use some space. two days after i left he told to come home and pack my stuff up and move out that he wants a divorce and i cant change his mind. he says he wants to do what he wants to do when he wants to do it with no one to answer to. there has been no infedelity in our relati onship just petty arguing. now that weve had some time apart i see the things i could do different in our marriage. and i want to respect him more and make him feel better as a man. i just cant imagine living without him. i cant imagine not ever going to bed without him again. this all makes me sick. i cant eat, cant sleep, im so depressed. he has already sent me seperation papers, i just want to make him feel good and hate myself for ever making him feel bad to the point that he wanted a divorce. i know he loves me and he tells me he does, but he says that we just cant make it work. i want to save our marriage. please help:(
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