Husband Drinks TOO Much!

Advise helpful for those who have dealt with the issue. Husband and I have been married 21 years, he is 53 years old. When we met I had some concern for his drinking. Then I noticed if there was a 12 pack of beer in the frdg he would drink it that night and get up the next morning at 5:30 and head to work and do it the next day all over again. He gets on these roller coaster rides with his drinking. He might not touch anything for a month if he is trying to diet but then when he is on a roll watch out! he might have 1 1/2 bottles of wine in a night or drink 2 liters beer topped with shots of hard liquor. He is retired Air Force and all of his buddies that he has had in the years I have known him have been heavy drinkers. Last 2 weekends he has gotten smashed while out with friends, to the point where his words are slurring, he starts cussing when he gets to this point and chimes in on lude comments. For me it is very embarrassing. We just talked about all this last weekend when he got trashed and mad a fool of himself. he told me he hoped he had not embarrassed me which I told then told him I really do not like it when he does this. I have said over and over again, "limitations," but those words are never heard. I am actually starting to think about divorce. I am really tired of this.

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