Why do Wayward Spouses Condemn Others Who Cheat

I have a thread in the CWI section. I recently caught my wife of four years in a physical affair and left her. I will be seeking divorce. My question is this: have any of you betrayed spouses had a wayward partner who always condemned those he or she heard were engaging in adultery, and then turn around and do it themselves? When you confronted them did you ever bring this question to their attention. I don't understand this level of hypocrisy. It is as if some people have the ability to completely shut off the moral side of themselves when engaging in an affair. They simply turn off their principals like they have a switch. Did any of you confront your spouse for this and have them turn around and justify why it was okay for them to cheat, but not anyone else? Posted via Mobile Device

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