Need to move on!

Hi guys, Basically, I've recently broken up with a girl who lives on my corridor in halls. I know, I know, bad idea dating someone in the same halls. I understand that now! Due to the living situation it was very intense. It only lasted three months, but got serious very quickly. I ended it in the Easter break because we argued a lot and deep down I wasn't happy. It was really hard to do because I am so attracted to her, but we disagreed on two things which I felt were very important. Anyway, since the break up she has been going out a lot and getting with guys. We have the same friendship group, so we'd be going out on the same night. I made an effort the first week back to go out with everyone, to show my face, but she got with someone whilst I was there. I understand that I ended it and she can do what she wants. I'm not criticising her here. I found that incredibly hard to deal with because she still means so much to me, and apparently I meant a lot to her. Since then I have withdrawn myself from my friendship group because whenever I see her I get a huge surge of regret because she's so beautiful to me. Also I hate to hear all the girls talking about going out and getting with guys all the time- it makes me feel terrible because I know my ex is doing it as well. People have recognised that I've been withdrawing myself, and my ex has tried to tell me to stop being so stupid. OK, what I'm trying to say here, is has anyone gone through a similar situation? It kills me to see her because I'm so attracted to her. I've deleted her number and as a friend on fb. I'm trying my hardest with NC, but I keep bumping into her! She seems to be doing fine, but I'm a mess. If you've just read all of that word-vomit, then thank you for your time! Any words of advice, except for 'man-up you ended it' cheers :o x

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