| OK, Here is my thought process. I have been married 26 years. My wife and I get along, in fact, we are the best roommates I know. But sex is not there. There are a few reasons, her health is not so good, and I am working really hard to keep our head above water with the health insurance, cars, school tuition for the kids, etc. She does work part time and pays for food an car insurance. So, the last 4 years have been rough, and I am thinking it's a "season" that might pass. Here is the thing. I have stated - more than once - and point blank: "I would like a bj once a week and sex once every two weeks" Now, I am not really going to check off a calendar and say "Hey, you're down two bj's - you owe me" But I don't get it. I work so damn hard. All I want is a little action. To be honest, I NEED it. It makes me perform on the job better. IF I had someone paying all my bills, I would like to think I would give them a little - just a little. I know, I know, this is not a contract relationship and I am not taking care of things because I expect something - but why is it wrong - to expect something. See, I know I am f**ked in my logic, but I feel so used. Please, kick some sense into me and tell me where I am off. I honestly cannot see it. | |||
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Money and Sex...I know I'm wrong..but
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