you guys call it "the switch"but is some of it "just life

äfter reading some of the respenses on here particularly about women who have high sex drive when first with you then it fades away.... you call this the switch ... :confused: but my question is isnt some of this just life !?? my hubby and i never had sex before marriage, due to beliefs, we saw each other naked and both of us had been in relationships before where we had had sex, he was married 5 years before. so why is it that we ( usually woman ) are expected to keep up the every night sex routine .... plus have babies, which keep us awake and we are so tired we feel like dying ! have a career keep the house clean be an amazing cook do all the finances... the list goes on ...... plus have the energy, desire for sex every night still ? i'm just wondering ?:scratchhead::confused: my hubby told me he wasnt happy with our sex life from an early point becasue i didnt make moves 50% of the time.... even though i had fun, enjoyed sex and we did it frequently 2 to 3 times a week :scratchhead: we had 3 children all under 4 and the first had problems where he never slept for more than 1 hour.... I was exhausted!!! i didnt have time to do anything for myself let alone be a super woman. also i had a lot of internal injuries after first bub and it was very very painful to do it but we did it anyway , i did it to please him so is it the switch or life

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