Wife keeps mentioning seperation

There are many contributing factors that have got us here. Unfortunately my wife is angry and resentful, which prevents her from being happy, and loving toward me. It has taken me to long to be able to communicate openly with her, which is one of the issues that allowed this to get so far. I was not aware of how much she was hurting until it was to late. Now no matter how much we talk, she can not let go of her anger, and I know we would benefit from counseling, but she keeps talking separation. This is not at all what I want, especially with our seven year old son. All though I have given her space, I'm considering her separation idea, as the current situation is not working. Its terrifying to think about leaving behind everything that matters to me in order to hopefully reconcile. I know there is no magic answer, and I needed an outlet, as I'm not comfortable discussing this with any of my friends or family at this stage. Your questions or comme nts are welcome, and I appreciate both male and female perspectives.

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