| Wife and I have been married 15 years have 3 wonderful kids. Apparently she's been planning to leave me for at least a couple of months. I have NEVER been abusive. She says I am abusive and controlling. She has some psych issues, was diagnosed bipolar a couple years ago but refuses meds. Because of her erratic behavior I've been forced to take on a caretaker role. I cook most of the meals, do all of the grocery shopping, except the odd run to the store for a couple of items. I work from home, run a business and bring her breakfast and coffee in bed almost every morning. I'm no saint, but she currently has "friends" helping her plot to run away to a domestic violence shelter o_O [ NONE of these friends are even LOCAL or have MET either of us!!! ] Our LOCAL friends do NOT see me as abusive at all. She curiously isn't seeking them out for support. She has agreed to go see a marriage counselor, but ONLY to help us get along, not for hoping to reconcile. She is seeking therapy through the DV shelter... I feel like I woke up and have started taking crazy pills. She said for YEARS that our sex life was awesome, bragged to friends about me. Yesterday she said it was ****ty. She can't see one positive thing about me and it feels like she's seeing the past through a weirdo vision idk. I would REALLY REALLY love to save this marriage and keep our family together. But I feel like I've got all these people against me and I don't know what to do. | |||
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