Should I inform my wife of her FOG situation

I am going through a period of my wife's infidelity and the risk of losing her altogether. This thread about the fog describes exactly what she is going through (see the Will Kane posting): http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-...ak-matter.html Then there is this very good one about the consquences of not coming out of the fog in time: http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-...-my-story.html I am at the stage where she has not left, we have not divorced but are still under the same roof, with me trying to cope with her being in the fog with another man. I am limiting my contact with her but we have to talk about the kids going to school, paying the bills, etc. We also go out with the kids ocasionally, to try and limit the damage on them. My question is, should I show her these postings for her to see what she is really doing or do I need to wait until she sees for herself, but then it could be too late, she could be married to him and away from the kids and I by then. Her regrets in 2-3 years time will be of no use to me. I need to try and stop her before she does what the woman on the read-my-story did.

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