Attracted to someone else

Hey guys and gals, I've been going through a lot lately and have no one to talk to about this, because I know people will think I'm a horrible person. I've been happly married for almost 4 years, together for 5, but lately we've been having problems (see my other thread abut how he's been falling asleep during sex). I feel extremely attracted to another man, sometimes I even think I've fallen in love with him, and I don't know what to do to stop it. I haven't done anything about it and I think this guy is not interesd in me at all, so no possibility of a PA. We are really good friends and I wouldn't dare telling him about what I feel. I feel guilty for having these feelings and I wish I could shake them off. I love my husband and want to be with him forever, but I catch myself fantasizing not being married for one day and telling my fried how I feel about him. I've been really depressed and feeling like ****. My husband knows me a lot and has asked me if I'm in love with this guy. Since I'm extremely confused about my feelings, I told him no. After that, I keep my contact with my friend to a minimum and have tried to keep distance from him. It hurts so bad! Has anyone been in this situation? Any advice?

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