Email from ex MIL

So out of the blue my exMIL emails my sister after I moved out and nearly a year after the divorce, The reasons for this email I don't understand she told my sister how sad she was the marriage ended and that she and her daughter both cried in the court room and that it was like losing a son and that I had sad many bad things about her daughter for the damage to ever be repaired etc. I was blaming the divorce on a inconcievable affair (which I found out was true) and I was blaming the fact that having my exW youngest brother living with us from may of 2011 through December of 2011 as an excuse for marital breakdown not the affair. She then went on to say that everyone in the family missed me being around especially the teenage son. I was a little bit shocked at this because I have had NC after the divorce proceeding start except one day when I met my exFIL at a conference and he was very very upset and was deeply saddened by the whole situation, from a mans point of view when he had his hand on my shoulder I saw in his eyes that he was deeply ashamed of his daughter. The way she had gone about the affair and the divorce and seeing the OM in a small community. And now the EXW and the OM are now in a relationship together in that small community. I moved found out who were my real friends and have started a new life I have met someone and we are taking it slow and have talked about the past my exW I wanted to be upfront and for her to know what she was getting with me, anyways the email really baffles me thoughts? Posted via Mobile Device

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