| Week one of separation from the house, but finally back home with the kids (wife had first half of week). Getting stronger each day and realizing how much my wife thinks we can just pleasantly go through this and be there for the kids nearly like we're not separated. I feel like she's having her cake and eating it too, so I've jut dropped cold at this point and she noticed instantly. She's keeping quiet as well, but I think that's the best for now. Doing the 180 could not be more of a challenge for me as I'm the a typical nice guy who is far too trusting and I guess in a lot of ways has just let himself go in these years where our marriage was not all there. Please know that I have faults in this relationship too so I recognize this. For anyone who has done 180, wondering how painful it is to get started and to keep the momentum up? I know I'm just getting going, but dang is it tough out the gate. I'm guessing this can take months to get it going and understood that this is how your handling/moving on??? Any suggestions on keeping it up would be welcomed!!! Posted via Mobile Device | |||
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