| Hi everyone, I'm new here and i want to tell my story and get other peoples opinions please. Up until a few moths ago my marriage was great, i have been married for 12 years but been with my partner for 18, we have 2 kids. Around Xmas time i felt something was changing and i asked my wife if everything was ok a number of times, she said everything was fine and we were getting on really well. I still had a gut feeling that something was not right so when paying her phone bill i checked the call/sms usage and there was a number on there that had been sent 25 sms messages over a 2 week period while i was at work or sleeping. These sms had been deleted from her phone and i began to think something was not right, i then checked her phone contacts and the number was what i thought was an old male friend. This was beginning to eat me up so i looked in her phone again and the first few lines of his and her txts were there to see in the phone history. He was trying to get her to have sex with him and she did eventually said no there was a great deal flirting going on between them. She was saying that if she was single she would and that what she wants and can have were not the same thing, eventulaly he said yes or no and she said she would love to but no unfortunatly no. that was the end of the txts to each other. I confronted her about this straight away and she knew she was caught. this guy was someone she admitted to having sex with before meeting me. I asked how he got her number and she said she gave him it after her started sending messages on fb. I feel totally betrayed and a few weeks later i am struggling with it, i love my wife and she says she loves me and does not want anyone else, she says our relationship, sex, etc, etc is great. I have major trust issues with her now even though i know she said no to him. Is this regarded as sexting or am i overreacting ??? All opinions are welcome sorry for the long post!:confused: | |||
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