| This thread is inspired by another member here who has helped me a ton so far in my recovery from codependency. Every night however seems to be a battle for me, I thought it would be a good idea to come here, post some examples of what is going on in my marriage, how I handled them, then you tell me what you would have done, and then I can see just how far I have come in my recovery. We will start with last night. Anyone who has read my previous posts knows that I am in a rather frustrating relationship. Wife could have (Borderline Personality Disorder) but has not been diagnosed because she will not take the initiative to go see a therapist, though she knows she needs help. My wife worked really late last night, which has been pretty common lately, however last night was different. I went through all day not talking to her, I used to text her throughout the day but have recently stopped doing that, since I stopped she has really not taken the initiative to text me, which does hurt honestly because it's nice to know every once in awhile she is thinking about me. So, all day we both are at work I hear nothing. My day comes to an end at 4:30pm and I am home by normally 5:30pm or so. So I come home, begin cleaning the house and think why am I going to go through this and clean for her like I always do. So I decide to play some video games. Before I know it, it's 9:00 and I have not even heard from her. She texts me around 9:15 and says "Still at work", I reply "Sorry hun, see you soon." I lay down for bed and she comes home from work around 10:30pm and I am sleeping. Wake up this morning, she is getting ready to go back to work and I just said "morning", did my things and left for work. She texts me this morning and says "I love you, miss you" I said "I am just a text away" and that is the last I heard. So, how did I do? | |||
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