Being taken advantage of

Am I being selfish or being taken advantage of? Married to H for 2 years and living together for 4. In the beginning of relationship I had money in savings and was able to buy things I wanted and needed with out worry of being broke. I supported my self and my son with out any help for 16 years. Since getting married H has been laid off several times and has not been able to pay his child support in full so I would help out to make up the difference. His car broke down over a year ago and since I work so close to home I walk and he now uses my car and says he will fix his but it will cost too much. He is not very good with saving money and is an impulse buyer. He goes to the store for groceries and comes home with mostly junk foods He has the bank card now because my work schedule does not allow me to get to the bank and we are living on my income and are broke a week before I get paid again. When I try to discuss my concerns with him he gets very angry and breaks stuff and says I am controlling and I treat him like a child and threatens to leave our home. He has control of the TV and refuses to watch any shows I like with me. I get angry and go to the room to watch TV. He falls asleep on the couch and the next day it is the same story. Am I being selfish?

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