I thought I should start a new topic and call our isue what it really is.
So, you know the history- my husband will not have sex with me that often. He has been uninterested, disengaged and in his own little world for a few years now.
I have now come to learn that he has a porn/sex addiction. Live Web cam sex, hook up sites, and prostitutes. I have had hard evidence (physical evidence, emails, website msgs, phone records etc.) and showed it to him and he still denies much of it.
My friend that I've confided in thinks I should allow him to stay in the guest room and show that I'm willing to work on it. That he has an addiction and deserves a second chance.
But I want him out. I'm trying to get into a therapist in the next day or two to get my head on straight. Why do I have to show him anything. He should know he risks losing it all and leave the house. I don't want to make it easy for him.
I just scheduled my STD appointment and started balling while talking to the scheduler. I go between feeling numb and hysterical.
I'm not sure i want to work it out. He's been doing this for 12 years - entire relationship. I feel like I don't know this person so how can I decide to stay with him right now.
How can he continue to lie when it's right there in black and white.
I'm so confused.
So, you know the history- my husband will not have sex with me that often. He has been uninterested, disengaged and in his own little world for a few years now.
I have now come to learn that he has a porn/sex addiction. Live Web cam sex, hook up sites, and prostitutes. I have had hard evidence (physical evidence, emails, website msgs, phone records etc.) and showed it to him and he still denies much of it.
My friend that I've confided in thinks I should allow him to stay in the guest room and show that I'm willing to work on it. That he has an addiction and deserves a second chance.
But I want him out. I'm trying to get into a therapist in the next day or two to get my head on straight. Why do I have to show him anything. He should know he risks losing it all and leave the house. I don't want to make it easy for him.
I just scheduled my STD appointment and started balling while talking to the scheduler. I go between feeling numb and hysterical.
I'm not sure i want to work it out. He's been doing this for 12 years - entire relationship. I feel like I don't know this person so how can I decide to stay with him right now.
How can he continue to lie when it's right there in black and white.
I'm so confused.
Put the internet to work for you.
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