I hope someone can explain this.
My wife and I got married 5 years ago and sex was amazing before and just after marriage, however it was intense, couple of rounds each time. After the birth of our first child, things started to change in an awkward way.
Our sex life started to die out. then I found out that my wife was into gay porn, and that she was watching gay and dp porn regularly. I haven't told her yet that I knew about it.
One day she would tell me that she likes hard sex and explained to me how she would like it if I called her with names like a sxxx of cheap xxxx. and during sex ( one to two times a month now) she would pull my hand to her neck to choke her and some times hold my hand and make me slap her breast hard. one week later if I try it myself she would tell me that I was too rough !
Some times she takes my hand and slaps her ***** with it, and the while after she tells me not to do that again. Another time she begs me to finish on her face and the other time she tells me how gross it is, one month after she will beg me to do it !
She has been sending mixed signals all the time! im not sure what she likes and what she doesnt anymore ! Does she stop having sex for a while because she is not excited anymore ? Is she hoping for me to be tough or soft ? I tried to talk to her but it seems like she doesnt understand herself too.
She had a rough childhood with verbally abusive mom and from what I understood she used to be physically abusive too. did it impact her sexuality ? is she secretly hoping for me to be the same in bed at least ?
My wife and I got married 5 years ago and sex was amazing before and just after marriage, however it was intense, couple of rounds each time. After the birth of our first child, things started to change in an awkward way.
Our sex life started to die out. then I found out that my wife was into gay porn, and that she was watching gay and dp porn regularly. I haven't told her yet that I knew about it.
One day she would tell me that she likes hard sex and explained to me how she would like it if I called her with names like a sxxx of cheap xxxx. and during sex ( one to two times a month now) she would pull my hand to her neck to choke her and some times hold my hand and make me slap her breast hard. one week later if I try it myself she would tell me that I was too rough !
Some times she takes my hand and slaps her ***** with it, and the while after she tells me not to do that again. Another time she begs me to finish on her face and the other time she tells me how gross it is, one month after she will beg me to do it !
She has been sending mixed signals all the time! im not sure what she likes and what she doesnt anymore ! Does she stop having sex for a while because she is not excited anymore ? Is she hoping for me to be tough or soft ? I tried to talk to her but it seems like she doesnt understand herself too.
She had a rough childhood with verbally abusive mom and from what I understood she used to be physically abusive too. did it impact her sexuality ? is she secretly hoping for me to be the same in bed at least ?
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