It is going to be almost 4 years since my wife was outed. We are doing very well. Especially since I started working on my self. She is in her best behaviour.
Two weeks ago, out of the blue, the OM sent a friend request to my wife. I have full access to all her online presence. But she let me know as soon as the request came in. Her profile has no picture and is set with most of the privacy settings. But the name sure does appear in a friend search. So I guess the OM was definitely searching for her and trying to connect back.
We have just deleted his friend request. Did not block yet. But the fact that he may still be trying to connect back with my wife angers me. I probably did not out him seriously last time around. Just gave anonymous tip to his wife. He backed off immediately then.
I am considering confronting him, or at least inform his wife, but one part of me still says just to move on. He is just not worth it and probably all the drama that it may unleash. Especially with his wife.
I am having a great time with my family and don't want to do anything that may jeopardise our current situation. Still weighing my options... What is your advice?
Two weeks ago, out of the blue, the OM sent a friend request to my wife. I have full access to all her online presence. But she let me know as soon as the request came in. Her profile has no picture and is set with most of the privacy settings. But the name sure does appear in a friend search. So I guess the OM was definitely searching for her and trying to connect back.
We have just deleted his friend request. Did not block yet. But the fact that he may still be trying to connect back with my wife angers me. I probably did not out him seriously last time around. Just gave anonymous tip to his wife. He backed off immediately then.
I am considering confronting him, or at least inform his wife, but one part of me still says just to move on. He is just not worth it and probably all the drama that it may unleash. Especially with his wife.
I am having a great time with my family and don't want to do anything that may jeopardise our current situation. Still weighing my options... What is your advice?
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