We are watching tv on the couch. I decide to look at some basic porn to see her reaction. When she saw me browsing on my ipad she couldn't believe it and said why. I said because I'm a man and that's what men tend to do. She said that since I'm married and am having sex there is no reason to. I said that even married men having sex still look at porn time to time. She didn't believe me.
Is it normal for married men to look at porn?
Another thing, she saw the commercial for 50 Shades movie and said she'd like to see it. She read the books a while ago. That night in bed I said I would like to try BDSM. She said, 'doesn't that involve tools?' I said it can be as simple as tying or covering eyes. She said no way. I said then I would like to be tied up then. She said absolutely no way. It reminds her of slavery. I said it's not like that because there are safe words etc. She said no way, end of story.
Why do you think she would want to watch 50 Shades but not even consider basic BDSM play? We're very vanilla but I would like to introduce something new. The only thing she would agree to is role play but even that she's reluctantly agreeing I think. I'm somehow hoping it turns out she ends up liking it. English is not her first language so it's harder.
We have sex 2 times per week and are in mid-forties so I can't complain about frequency.
4 of her married girlfriends from same ethnic group (Asian) are basically sexless so she said I should be thankful I'm getting as much as I am. I told her I am thankful but I would like her to initiate, dress up etc. Am I asking for too much?
Is it normal for married men to look at porn?
Another thing, she saw the commercial for 50 Shades movie and said she'd like to see it. She read the books a while ago. That night in bed I said I would like to try BDSM. She said, 'doesn't that involve tools?' I said it can be as simple as tying or covering eyes. She said no way. I said then I would like to be tied up then. She said absolutely no way. It reminds her of slavery. I said it's not like that because there are safe words etc. She said no way, end of story.
Why do you think she would want to watch 50 Shades but not even consider basic BDSM play? We're very vanilla but I would like to introduce something new. The only thing she would agree to is role play but even that she's reluctantly agreeing I think. I'm somehow hoping it turns out she ends up liking it. English is not her first language so it's harder.
We have sex 2 times per week and are in mid-forties so I can't complain about frequency.
4 of her married girlfriends from same ethnic group (Asian) are basically sexless so she said I should be thankful I'm getting as much as I am. I told her I am thankful but I would like her to initiate, dress up etc. Am I asking for too much?
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