It's been like this for a while. I mean it wasn't like this at first but gradually over time I'm finding my girlfriend to be extremely shallow and selfish e.g. the way she gossips and judges others, her opinions on other people, religions,, races etc.
It's got to the point where she's upset mutual friends and I've had people complain to me about her behaviour. I have spoken to her many times about it sometimes we've had heated rows and other times she tries to play the victim and starts crying etc.
Additionally I just feel we're beginning to drift apart and I find myself confiding in another female friend whom dare I say I may be developing feelings for (and I think she feels the same way too).
But going off the other girl has nothing to do with this other female friend but more so her behaviour etc. I just feel she never has time for me never wants to listen to me and it's always about her and how she thinks she's so much better than everyone else. I just don't like that. I thought she was a nice person, kind to others, humble and non-judgemental. Instead she seems to be a selfish well I hate to use the word bitch.
Is it time to just be straight with her and tell her I don't want to be with her anymore or should I stick it out and try to change her?
The problem is that because of all this I actually don't know whether I actually genuinely like/love her anymore. I try to think of something positive to say about her but all I can think about is the shallow narrow minded comments she makes.
Put the internet to work for you.
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