Think DH and I are going through a tough patch. I know there are going to be ups and downs, but when you're in a down, sometimes it feels like there's no way up.
I'm torn between trying to deal with the stuff, which brings up a lot of pain and aggravation for both of us, or burying it and moving on. Lately it feels like the downs are worse than ever.
DH just holds it all in unless I drag it out. Sometimes it feels like I poke and prod so we can deal with what's bothering him, but as soon as I try to discuss what's bothering me, he doesn't want to know about it. He makes out like I'm constantly bothering him with 'issues' when in fact, I really don't, because when I do, like I said, he doesn't want to know anyway, so what's the point?
Not sure how to deal with this attitude anymore. I usually force myself to work through something that's causing a rift between us, but I'm losing motivation. He doesn't want to deal with it, maybe I should just leave the rift there.
I'm torn between trying to deal with the stuff, which brings up a lot of pain and aggravation for both of us, or burying it and moving on. Lately it feels like the downs are worse than ever.
DH just holds it all in unless I drag it out. Sometimes it feels like I poke and prod so we can deal with what's bothering him, but as soon as I try to discuss what's bothering me, he doesn't want to know about it. He makes out like I'm constantly bothering him with 'issues' when in fact, I really don't, because when I do, like I said, he doesn't want to know anyway, so what's the point?
Not sure how to deal with this attitude anymore. I usually force myself to work through something that's causing a rift between us, but I'm losing motivation. He doesn't want to deal with it, maybe I should just leave the rift there.
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