Our communication is not good.
Whatever we talk about. Hubby is convinced he is 100% right about almost EVERYTHING. He has a great self-esteem when it comes to that.
He likes to tune out reality.
Example: We have a plan and it might be impossible to follow it. hubby holds the opinion everything is possible if you only work hard enough.
But hubby won't say he thinks he is always right. Instead he will say "Yes, yes, yes" while tuning you out. I am convinced there is one part of his brain responsible for saying "Yes!" while the rest of his brain thinks about something totally different.
I on the other hand often end up getting real angry at him and blaming him.
When hubby is stressed he sometimes bites his hand. Things like this... that is hard to look at for me and I get angry and shout at him not too... then he shouts "sorry" and I feel bad... somewhat later he bites his hand again. This is quite hard for me to watch.
I told him before I am sorry for getting angry at him because I do know he is actually ashamed he does it.
Whatever we talk about. Hubby is convinced he is 100% right about almost EVERYTHING. He has a great self-esteem when it comes to that.
He likes to tune out reality.
Example: We have a plan and it might be impossible to follow it. hubby holds the opinion everything is possible if you only work hard enough.
But hubby won't say he thinks he is always right. Instead he will say "Yes, yes, yes" while tuning you out. I am convinced there is one part of his brain responsible for saying "Yes!" while the rest of his brain thinks about something totally different.
I on the other hand often end up getting real angry at him and blaming him.
When hubby is stressed he sometimes bites his hand. Things like this... that is hard to look at for me and I get angry and shout at him not too... then he shouts "sorry" and I feel bad... somewhat later he bites his hand again. This is quite hard for me to watch.
I told him before I am sorry for getting angry at him because I do know he is actually ashamed he does it.
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