Im Pakistani british born and the girl I like is English, I like her and I dont mind talking to her and getting to know her and even dating her I may ask her out this week. Now comes the problem of families and culture clash. I was just thinking this yes ok I like her and she could like me and we could have a really nice relationship.
However when/if we want to take it further such as marriage or living together it wont work. We would want to be happy but the culture clash and parents reactions can be harsh. If her parents found out she was with an asian they may not like it, same goes for mine. She drinks aswell which is a turn off and I dont drink myself. Therefore I was thinking it may not work between us.
Dont get me wrong I think she's a great girl and I would support her in every aspect of her life, she takes part in volleyball and I would really keep her keen about her sport. But like I said in my culture girls dont really play volleyball. However I like the fact she has a sport and keeps herself healthy.
Im just thinking long term, once the time comes to marriage/living together I dont want to drop a bombshell on her and ask her to convert, I would never force her to do something she doesnt want to do. By that time she may have stong feelings for me and I would look a prick asking her to convert and stop drinking if I never told her about it the first instnace.
Long term wise I dont want to break her heart by doing something like that.
So what do I do ?
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