I have been seeing my boyfriend for nearly a year and i am now very much in love with him.
My problem is that he doesn't work, he has no car and he spends money he doesn't have on gambling sometimes because he gets so bored at times. He says he is looking really hard for a job and i believe he is trying but he is also unwilling to get anything other than a job he thinks he will like. He told me ages ago that he would drive but he became skint and nervous and never got round to it. There are also some problems in the bedroom that are making me frustrated and he doesnt want to go to the doctor. I broke up with him a while ago for a different reason and we are trying to work things out but I am worried things will stay like this a long time. I want to be married with a house and kids within the next 5 years.
He is very miserable at the moment and I dont want to stress him out further but I don't know what to do. I love him and I don't want to end it but the relationship is alot of work for me. does anyone have any advice on how I can raise these issues with him in the best way?
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