My husband and I have been married for 5 years and have 2 children. We have been struggling financially since day one. When I meet my husband he was unemployed living with his unemployed father who is financially supported by my husbands grandparents. His grandparents wouldn't want it any other way as they buy everyone with their money and enable everyone in that family to be lazy and irresponsible only to be able to control them and tell them what to do. Both me and my husband agreed not to follow the footsteps of his family members and be independent. He has promised me ever since things will change and he will no longer do what his grandparents tell him yet it never has changed. He has used me to the fullest by living in my house, driving my car as im stuck at home because according to his grandparents I don't need a car. Proving no financial security for me and not even discussing any financial issues with me but to find out with his grandmother. My h usband makes ok money yet will not buy a car for me or plan on getting a house together and the only reason to me is his family. They seem to oppose to him providing anything for me or our children and all they do is harm us one way or another. Im sick and tiered of him listening to them and not even taking me or my kids into consideration. Ive talked to him about this and he promises things will change but never do. Am I over reacting? Or being selfish for not wanting them in what should be our decisions as a couple?
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