The OM or OW does anyone have to deal with them ?

Just wondering has a spouse left you for someone else and now you have to or eventually had to deal with them as a couple ?

Was anyone able to pull this off ?

My quick story.. Ex left me for someone else and they are pretty much together since they cheated in 2012..

I do not badmouth my Ex wife to the kids but I really don't have anything nice to say about the Other Man.. I do not ever seeing myself dealing with them, let alone my Ex wife on anything related to my kids..

My Ex has never come to me to fix or apologize about what she has done.. It pretty much is, I did what I did.. Too bad, deal with it and accept it..

I cannot and will not.. I expressed to her talking it over with me will go a long way and I even admitted that I would be put in a position of having to making it work because she extended a olive branch.. But she refuses because she needs to show the OM some sort of loyalty, even at the cost of her own kids..

We barely ever speak and I pretty much do what I need with my boys and the Ex wife is a side bar of Oh, BTW when possible.

So I am wondering if anyone does deal with them and has found a way to make it manageable.

It is more a concern for family court reasons more than anything else if anyone is wondering and looking to ask the simple question, "Why would you want to make it manageable."

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