marriage problem

I have a serious problem with my marriage and reach this website maybe someone has some good idea on what to do. basically my wife hates me as hell and at the same time she's totally dependent on me. So I thought a solution for this will be either make her stop hating me, either divorce and make her independent of me, because it's hard to take care of someone that hates on you. So I tried all what I can to make her stop hating on me, it doesn't work and I can't do more than that, she's just gonna hate on me no matter what. so I tried to talk with her about leaving each other and the doors of hell opened on me, she gets into emotional traumas and the crying and the loud screaming, which is dangerous since the cops in this country they go and catch the man whenever they hear a woman screaming. I had to take her to the hospital two times for an emotional breakdown and they said it's a migraine. Basically it became impossible to talk reasonably with her and t he only solution I see now is that I run away from the house and file for divorce. Now when I file for divorce, I am sure that she will be after all my money and assets. The only time I was able to reach with her to talk about divorce, she said if we divorce she wants all what I own and wants me to pay her monthly alimony for the rest of her life, I said no and then the doors of hell opened. She basically has nothing to loose from the divorce, she will only gain based on these unjust divorce laws, the only thing that she will loose is owning me as a provider. she tricked me into this marriage to use the laws against me. When we were dating she kept pushing for marriage, days and nights, so I though well maybe it's out of love, but that was out of insecurity and she wants to get a more secure position by holding a marriage against me. I didn't know about these nonsense marriage laws before as I was never married before. Anyway, any ideas or suggestion on how to separate with this woman is appreciated. I'm trying not to get into too much trouble and to minimize my losses; which is the opposite of what she wants that is all the trouble and maximizes her gains
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