Desire....how do you know?

SO this may have been asked before....but hoping there may be those who can suggest.

HOW ...does an HD actually know/discover if their LD spouse is simply not into sex...or not into them?

I have been getting "duty sex" in my opinion and as nice as that might sound versus ...a sexless marriage.
It is REALLY not.

So..now I just really want to know.
In the absence of a genuine dialog - which is very hard to get with my wife...is there any way I can tell?

Thank you in advance for your thoughts ...

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