Close to 2 years past DDay. Still have triggers that bring be back to that moment...
Wife has been a trickler since I confronted her. Our marriage has been stable, maybe I should just rejoice in that.
I have tried to close that chapter and move forward knowing I dont know the full truth but I find that for me, trust is missing... And i feel I can't trust her because I don't believe her.
Key points:
1. She says she was already at the point of calling it off..So that she could decide with open mind if she still wanted our marriage. My belief based on the last few days of her tect and phone activity, she was trying to get the guts to tell me she was leaving for OM.
2. In an affair that lasted approx. 4 months she insists they never had intercourse, but only kissed and did some oral. She has stated matte rof factly she told him that would not be happening.
Really? She said she tried to get out of the affair three times-couldn't help herself from falling back in to it, but she COULD control intercourse???
The night I confronted her I asked if she was in love with OM:Yes
Are you going to leave him?: I dont know
For me, I DO NOT BELIEVE HER. I don't know how to build a trusting relationship going forward...
QUESTION FOR FEMALE WS's:
Did any of you have physical affairs with no intercourse?
Wife has been a trickler since I confronted her. Our marriage has been stable, maybe I should just rejoice in that.
I have tried to close that chapter and move forward knowing I dont know the full truth but I find that for me, trust is missing... And i feel I can't trust her because I don't believe her.
Key points:
1. She says she was already at the point of calling it off..So that she could decide with open mind if she still wanted our marriage. My belief based on the last few days of her tect and phone activity, she was trying to get the guts to tell me she was leaving for OM.
2. In an affair that lasted approx. 4 months she insists they never had intercourse, but only kissed and did some oral. She has stated matte rof factly she told him that would not be happening.
Really? She said she tried to get out of the affair three times-couldn't help herself from falling back in to it, but she COULD control intercourse???
The night I confronted her I asked if she was in love with OM:Yes
Are you going to leave him?: I dont know
For me, I DO NOT BELIEVE HER. I don't know how to build a trusting relationship going forward...
QUESTION FOR FEMALE WS's:
Did any of you have physical affairs with no intercourse?
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