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Don't take it personally. It's not about you.

It seems like feelings get hurt on TAM when we take what other people say as some kind of reflection on us. We give them power that they don't really have. What they say really has more to do with their own life and experiences than with ours.

I'm really glad when people speak openly and honestly. I think we learn a lot more when we disagree than when we agree. Saying what people like to hear is not really as helpful as saying what we really and truly believe.

How do you avoid taking things personally, while still learning from others?

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