I am a male, 57 yrs old, been married 37 yrs.Everything has been pretty good for the most part until 3 yrs ago.My wife started menopause, and her desire for sex went to zero.Before that time being are age we may have had sex once a week or every couple weeks, even once a month, which was fine with me.
I understand a womens body is going through all kinds of changes, and i get it there if there is no desire, you cannot change that.
Even they way she looks at me has changed, i am in good shape , and if she see me nude she does not even notice..She says she has nothing for me.
A few times i would be on the bed ready and she would walk in, get this terrible look on her face and shut the door..
I have ask her, ok you dont want sex, but why can you not help me.. how hard is that.. she will not do that either..she will not go to the Doctor to get her levels checked..she will not go to a marriage counsellor.
So after 37 yrs i am on my own, we dont sleep together, we dont watch tv together, we dont touch each other.
I had it out with her the other day telling her if you cannot help me out, even though it may discuss you, then i will find comfort outside the home., let the chips fall were they may.I still have strong desires, and need human contact..
She has things all her own way, doesn't have to work, wants something new she gets it, i have looked after her well all these years.We both dont drink or smoke,so there is no alcohol distorting my thoughts.
I told her now i know why Some guys over 50 have affairs.. and of course they turn out to be the bad person..
I have not had any affair and stayed true for 37 yrs, but now i am going to think of myself.I have gave her fair warning of my feelings, and i dont think she takes me serious.
I have nobody in mind but i know somebody is out there with the same desires.I have had 3 years to think about this.
I understand a womens body is going through all kinds of changes, and i get it there if there is no desire, you cannot change that.
Even they way she looks at me has changed, i am in good shape , and if she see me nude she does not even notice..She says she has nothing for me.
A few times i would be on the bed ready and she would walk in, get this terrible look on her face and shut the door..
I have ask her, ok you dont want sex, but why can you not help me.. how hard is that.. she will not do that either..she will not go to the Doctor to get her levels checked..she will not go to a marriage counsellor.
So after 37 yrs i am on my own, we dont sleep together, we dont watch tv together, we dont touch each other.
I had it out with her the other day telling her if you cannot help me out, even though it may discuss you, then i will find comfort outside the home., let the chips fall were they may.I still have strong desires, and need human contact..
She has things all her own way, doesn't have to work, wants something new she gets it, i have looked after her well all these years.We both dont drink or smoke,so there is no alcohol distorting my thoughts.
I told her now i know why Some guys over 50 have affairs.. and of course they turn out to be the bad person..
I have not had any affair and stayed true for 37 yrs, but now i am going to think of myself.I have gave her fair warning of my feelings, and i dont think she takes me serious.
I have nobody in mind but i know somebody is out there with the same desires.I have had 3 years to think about this.
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