I recently found out that my husband of almost 12 years has been cheating on me for the past 6 years of our life together. He has been cheating with different women and had also been in a short term relationship. He has also been with several prostitutes.
I dont know where this has come from because I am a very sexual person. Before I found out what was going on we never had a great sexual relationship. He would never be interested or he wouldnt be able to keep up and would always say to me that he has a lot of work from stress and too much on his mind and so on. we have 2 young kids. before I found out he is cheating we also had a very rough early years of our marriage. he would be very abusive physically and verbally. although that has changed and he no longer does that.
I am done with this marriage but he will not let me go. He manipulates me and says he is sorry but I dont know why i am so scared to leave him. I get guilty feelings but i know thats the best option for me. He says that he is very sorry and i need to forgive him and he knows that it was a huge mistake and doesnt know why he was doing that stuff behind my back but I need to move on with him and forgive him.
I need help. I go to therapy but I feel like the people that do know whats going on are not helpful enough because they are in a way making me stay with him and say that all men are the same.
please help me and give me your advice. I am desparate.
I dont know where this has come from because I am a very sexual person. Before I found out what was going on we never had a great sexual relationship. He would never be interested or he wouldnt be able to keep up and would always say to me that he has a lot of work from stress and too much on his mind and so on. we have 2 young kids. before I found out he is cheating we also had a very rough early years of our marriage. he would be very abusive physically and verbally. although that has changed and he no longer does that.
I am done with this marriage but he will not let me go. He manipulates me and says he is sorry but I dont know why i am so scared to leave him. I get guilty feelings but i know thats the best option for me. He says that he is very sorry and i need to forgive him and he knows that it was a huge mistake and doesnt know why he was doing that stuff behind my back but I need to move on with him and forgive him.
I need help. I go to therapy but I feel like the people that do know whats going on are not helpful enough because they are in a way making me stay with him and say that all men are the same.
please help me and give me your advice. I am desparate.
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