I feel like my wife doesn't love me

I am 43 years old and have been married for 17 years. My wife and I were a great couple. When we were younger, I felt like she really loved me. We did everything together. We had great sex, like most everyone does at the beginning. I am a cuddler and we did that a lot as well. She was great. Even after our first child (who is now 13) I always felt like she was in love with me. We have always had some ups and down through the years. We both have our slight issues but nothing that good communication can't fix. Our daughter is 9 years old. Even after she was born, I felt like my wife still loved me. However, I started notice the only time she would touch me or be affectionate was after a few drinks....

.( I'll fast forward ti llabout 3 years ago and the present)

Presently, my wife will never touch me, will never say she loves me and most of the time completely ignores me. I've talked to her about it and she says she doesnt like to kiss and doesn't like me touching her. I annoy her and I feel she has no respect for me. Its been very hard. I love her. I am passionate and she isn't. Crazy thing is about month ago after she came home after a few drinks she basically jumped me and the sex was great. The next morning she acted like it didn't happen. I was so confused. I want to go out on date without the kids and she has no interest. I am lonely. She doesnt like sleeping in the same bed with me. I am in shape and other women find me attractive yet she just doesn't show any interest towards me. All I do is get upset and my self confidence is suffering. I don't want to live like this any more. I love her and my kids but I want a healthy relationship with someone. I feel like a have a lot to offer. My wife just takes me for granted. I am unhappy and want more. I can go on and on.....I don't know what to do

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