We have always gone through the same cycle, tons of sex for a period of time and then for one reason or another it goes to 0 for a while. Then someone gets frustrated with that and it goes back.
We've been in another 0 for a while and have been talking for the past 2 weekends about fixing that again but I'm so sick of not getting the kind of sex that I want, usually I give in anyway but I'm resistant this time.
When we do have sex, he does something for me first (usually toys) then we have sex or BJ.
What I would want (doesn't have to be all of these) - seducing me during the day nicely (he does more of a caveman approach :p), kissing, soft touching (he's always rough grabbing and pulling), him undressing me (vs. just saying "get naked") making sex for the 2 of us, more passion (I'm usually in a position that is just for his benefit), and actually really caring about my O instead of just going through the motions because he should.
To be fair it used to be a lot worse but I'm pretty sure where I have it now is where it's going to stay
Which brings me to the options of bad sex or no sex.
Ladies-would you settle for sex you didn't like just to be able to have sex?
Men- should women have sex they don't like just so they don't reject their partner?
We've been in another 0 for a while and have been talking for the past 2 weekends about fixing that again but I'm so sick of not getting the kind of sex that I want, usually I give in anyway but I'm resistant this time.
When we do have sex, he does something for me first (usually toys) then we have sex or BJ.
What I would want (doesn't have to be all of these) - seducing me during the day nicely (he does more of a caveman approach :p), kissing, soft touching (he's always rough grabbing and pulling), him undressing me (vs. just saying "get naked") making sex for the 2 of us, more passion (I'm usually in a position that is just for his benefit), and actually really caring about my O instead of just going through the motions because he should.
To be fair it used to be a lot worse but I'm pretty sure where I have it now is where it's going to stay
Which brings me to the options of bad sex or no sex.
Ladies-would you settle for sex you didn't like just to be able to have sex?
Men- should women have sex they don't like just so they don't reject their partner?
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