Me and my wife have been married since 21 years. Ever since the opening up of the internet and easy/cheap communication though desktop computer or mobiles, she has established links with her old friends and made some new ones through social networking sites (facebook, etc.).
She was working during the first few years of our marriage, but after the birth of our daughter, she became a housemaker and spends most of the time at home now.
She had started communicating with her ex-bf which I saw on her phone. I had discussed with her and put a stop to that.
Then there was another male (not the ex-bf) whom she became friends on FB (no actual meeting has taken place). She was exchanging double meaning messages and dirty adult jokes and graphics with him. I believe that she and he even talked on the phone a few times. I also saw most of the communication which she had with him on her phone/fb chat and had to also discussed with her and put a stop to that. I had told her at that time that its not right for a mature married woman (& mother of our teenaged daughter) to exchange adult jokes/graphics with males.
Now I find out that she's still doing it but with one of her male classmates from school days. She claims they are just friends and he's like a brother to her and that many females she knows also do stuff like this.
Now with the 3rd guy, I've been seeing her communication and know for a fact that she's been deleting most of them or editing out some of them.
Its driving me crazy. How many guys do I have to deal with before I do something extreme?
She was working during the first few years of our marriage, but after the birth of our daughter, she became a housemaker and spends most of the time at home now.
She had started communicating with her ex-bf which I saw on her phone. I had discussed with her and put a stop to that.
Then there was another male (not the ex-bf) whom she became friends on FB (no actual meeting has taken place). She was exchanging double meaning messages and dirty adult jokes and graphics with him. I believe that she and he even talked on the phone a few times. I also saw most of the communication which she had with him on her phone/fb chat and had to also discussed with her and put a stop to that. I had told her at that time that its not right for a mature married woman (& mother of our teenaged daughter) to exchange adult jokes/graphics with males.
Now I find out that she's still doing it but with one of her male classmates from school days. She claims they are just friends and he's like a brother to her and that many females she knows also do stuff like this.
Now with the 3rd guy, I've been seeing her communication and know for a fact that she's been deleting most of them or editing out some of them.
Its driving me crazy. How many guys do I have to deal with before I do something extreme?
Put the internet to work for you.
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