shortening a long story.
sex between my self and my wife has been getting worse over the years.
In the beginning she was quite adventurous but slowly it gradually became a case of missionary position only. usually saturday morning then sometimes sunday. she has a rule about if i drink beer then no sex. so it rarely happens during the week.
now my problem, in the beginning it was great but these days it just feels like duty sex. she has hangups about touching down there. she never touches herself. now to add we were both involved in a car accident last year, she has ongoing problems with her hips and back that causes her pain.
myself early this year possibly may have broke my wrist. it was x rayed but the didnt find definitive proof. however i cant put any weight on it.
hence the only position available can be some what of an issue.
now 3 weeks ago we had totally impromptu during the day great sex. you could tell she was totally into it. and totally restored my faith that there might be hope for us.
then its back to how it was in fact worse.
the other day it felt pointless she barely kissed me during and after i was totally fed up of the situation.
well today i thought id try a last time.. still feeling fed up with the situation. reached across ran my had over her body. progressed things she opened legs. put a finger in .. after about a min she closed her legs. the prompt for me to remove finger then said "are you coming over then" as she does being the prompt for me to get on top.
i couldnt do it . just held her a bit she said something but i said in a minute. 5 mins later she got dressed then went about the days routines.
nothings been said at all about this morning.
is that it for us ... i dont know what to do?
now not wanting to sound bad i am very understanding about the accident and her pain however it is no different than before
sex between my self and my wife has been getting worse over the years.
In the beginning she was quite adventurous but slowly it gradually became a case of missionary position only. usually saturday morning then sometimes sunday. she has a rule about if i drink beer then no sex. so it rarely happens during the week.
now my problem, in the beginning it was great but these days it just feels like duty sex. she has hangups about touching down there. she never touches herself. now to add we were both involved in a car accident last year, she has ongoing problems with her hips and back that causes her pain.
myself early this year possibly may have broke my wrist. it was x rayed but the didnt find definitive proof. however i cant put any weight on it.
hence the only position available can be some what of an issue.
now 3 weeks ago we had totally impromptu during the day great sex. you could tell she was totally into it. and totally restored my faith that there might be hope for us.
then its back to how it was in fact worse.
the other day it felt pointless she barely kissed me during and after i was totally fed up of the situation.
well today i thought id try a last time.. still feeling fed up with the situation. reached across ran my had over her body. progressed things she opened legs. put a finger in .. after about a min she closed her legs. the prompt for me to remove finger then said "are you coming over then" as she does being the prompt for me to get on top.
i couldnt do it . just held her a bit she said something but i said in a minute. 5 mins later she got dressed then went about the days routines.
nothings been said at all about this morning.
is that it for us ... i dont know what to do?
now not wanting to sound bad i am very understanding about the accident and her pain however it is no different than before
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