What are the reasons we ended up with someone whose sex drive does not match our own? In my case, we dated a year. We had sex on our first date and frequently throughout the year. Once married we had almost daily sex for another year and frequent sex for the second year of marriage. Then the sex stopped. It was not a gradual decline. It went from frequent to nothing. Over the years we have had spurts of time where frequency increased but also many years of no sex at all. No explanation why.
I thought I was marrying someone with my high drive. He told me his first marriage ended due to her lack of interest in sex. At least 30 years later, he recanted that and said he did not have much of a drive in that marriage either. However he did cheat in that marriage. I don't know what to believe. But I do know if I had known he would give up sex with me, I wouldn't have married him.
How about for the rest of you with mismatched libidos?
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I thought I was marrying someone with my high drive. He told me his first marriage ended due to her lack of interest in sex. At least 30 years later, he recanted that and said he did not have much of a drive in that marriage either. However he did cheat in that marriage. I don't know what to believe. But I do know if I had known he would give up sex with me, I wouldn't have married him.
How about for the rest of you with mismatched libidos?
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